{"id":30664,"date":"2025-07-25T10:01:00","date_gmt":"2025-07-25T13:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tuviaserber.com\/?p=30664"},"modified":"2025-07-26T20:02:33","modified_gmt":"2025-07-26T23:02:33","slug":"parashot-matot-masei-stand-firm-and-move","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tuviaserber.com\/en\/parashot-matot-masei-stand-firm-and-move\/","title":{"rendered":"Parashot Matot\/Masei - Stand firm and move"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parashot Matot - Masei This week&#039;s reading contains two subjects that even though they appear to contradict, they are very connected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Introduction<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parashot Matot - Masei This week&#039;s reading contains two subjects that even though they appear to contradict, they are very connected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This week&#039;s Torah portion actually combines two readings. It&#039;s not just that two sections were simply glued together \u2014 rather, it&#039;s one reading that contains two general ideas. In fact, in most years, we read these two portions together. Therefore, it&#039;s important to extract a lesson for our lives from the <em>connection<\/em> between these two ideas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What are the two parts?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first one is called Matos, which means <em>sticks<\/em>.<br>The second is called Masei, which means <em>journeys<\/em> or <em>trips<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Let&#039;s explore what that means.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At the beginning of <em>Parshas Matos<\/em>, Moshe is speaking to the heads of the tribes about <em>promises<\/em>. Specifically, he&#039;s teaching the laws about how vows work \u2014 and how, if someone makes a vow and regrets it, they can approach a sage or leader to annul that vow, following a certain process. That&#039;s why Moshe addresses the <em>leaders<\/em> of the tribes \u2014 because they are the ones who need to understand these laws in order to guide others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the second section, <em>Masei<\/em>, The Torah speaks about the <em>journeys<\/em> that the Jewish people made \u2014 from Egypt all the way until they were about to enter the Land of Israel. In total, the Torah lists 42 journeys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now, at first glance, these two ideas \u2014 <em>sticks<\/em> and <em>journeys<\/em> \u2014seem to contradict one another. \u201cMatos\u201d (sticks) suggests something firm, fixed, solid \u2014 something that stays in one place. \u201cMasei\u201d (journeys) implies movement, change, progression \u2014 traveling forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So how can these two opposite ideas come together? Staying put vs. moving on?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To understand this, we need to look deeper into what each concept teaches us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>First, <\/strong><em><strong>Matos<\/strong><\/em><strong> \u2014 Sticks:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A stick is strong, firm, and unbending. It symbolizes strength, and in a certain sense, <em>pride<\/em> \u2014 the kind of pride where a person says, &quot;I know what I stand for. I know what&#039;s right.&quot;\u201c<br>Now, pride is usually seen as a negative trait. The Talmud has many warnings about arrogance and how it distances a person from truth and from Gd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, the same Talmud also says that a person needs a <em>tiny<\/em> amount of pride in order to live correctly. It calls this \u201can eighth of an eighth\u201d \u2014 that&#039;s 1\/64 \u2014 of pride. Just a drop. Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because without that little bit of inner strength and dignity, a person might be too easily influenced\u2014by their own negative desires or by the criticism or mocking of others. People might say things like, <em>\u201c&quot;Oh, you&#039;re becoming religious now? You think you&#039;re a tzaddik (righteous person) now?&quot;\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If a person doesn&#039;t have <em>any<\/em> pride, they might be swayed or discouraged by that negativity. But with a little strength \u2014 the kind symbolized by a \u201cstick\u201d \u2014 a person can say, \u201cThis is the truth, this is what Gd wants, and I&#039;m not backing down.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">SW <em>Matos<\/em> represents that positive kind of strength and pride \u2014 the kind that allows you to stand firm in fulfilling G-d&#039;s will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Second, <\/strong><em><strong>Masei<\/strong><\/em><strong> \u2014 Journeys:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When the Torah lists the journeys of the Jewish people, it uses the phrase: <em>\u201cThese are the journeys by which the Children of Israel left Egypt\u2026\u201d<\/em><br>But here&#039;s the question: Why is it plural \u2014 <em>journeys<\/em> \u2014 when really, it only takes <em>one<\/em> journey to leave Egypt? Once you step out of Egypt, you&#039;ve already left!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The answer is that \u201cEgypt\u201d in Hebrew is <em>Mitzrayim<\/em>, which comes from the word <em>Meitzarim<\/em> \u2014 meaning <em>limitations<\/em>. So Egypt doesn&#039;t just refer to a physical place, but to anything in life that limits a person spiritually or emotionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And in life, you don&#039;t leave your personal \u201cEgypt\u201d in one step. Yes, maybe you break free from one limitation\u2014but then you find yourself facing another. Every time you grow, you enter a new stage\u2026 and that new level comes with <em>its own<\/em> challenges and limits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So the process of spiritual growth is continuous. You&#039;re always leaving \u201cEgypt\u201d \u2014 again and again, rising beyond the next limit, and then the next one, constantly becoming closer to Gd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#039;s why the Torah uses the word <em>Masei<\/em> \u2014 <em>journeys<\/em>, plural. Life is a journey of ongoing personal and spiritual development.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Putting Them Together \u2014 <\/strong><em><strong>Matos<\/strong><\/em><strong> and <\/strong><em><strong>Masei<\/strong><\/em><strong>:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So again, <em>Matos<\/em> means firmness \u2014 standing strong and knowing who you are.<br><em>Masei<\/em> means movement \u2014 growth, transformation, not staying stuck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How do they work together?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In order to move forward, you need to be firm.<br>Growth and progress require inner strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And, just as an aside \u2014 if this is what Gd wants from you, He also gives you the strength to do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So that \u201cstick\u201d \u2014 that inner backbone \u2014 is what allows you to keep moving through the journey. You&#039;re not just being tossed around by life. You have direction, purpose, and strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that strength is what allows you to grow. And then grow more. And then grow again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because the path toward holiness, toward Gd, never ends. Gd is infinite, so there is always more to grow, more to learn, more to refine. But it starts with <em>strength<\/em> \u2014 knowing that you&#039;re capable, that you have a mission, and that Gd gives you the power to fulfill it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Parashot Matot - Masei This week's reading contains two subjects that even though they appear to contradict, they are very connected. Introduction Parashot Matot - Masei This week's reading contains two subjects that even though they appear to contradict, they are very connected. This week\u2019s Torah portion actually combines two readings. 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