Marriage is a microcosm of the soul's descent into this world.
If you're here looking for what you can get out of this world, then the world and all its traps will drag you down.
But if you are here looking for what you can give, then you, your part of the world, and your soul all rise up and are filled with light.
Similarly, when you enter into marriage: look for what you can give, and reap harmony and love.