In this week's section, we read, among other things, about the relationship between Jacob and his father-in-law, Laban. In the Torah, Laban is called "Laban the Aramean." However, our sages show us that within the word Aramean is found the Hebrew word ramai—deceiver.

Now, Jacob himself earned his name by outsmarting his brother Esau (as he himself says (Genesis 27:36): "he was wiser than I" by buying the birthright and keeping the blessings of his father Isaac). We see here that there is a similarity between Jacob and Laban: both, each in their own way, were "wiser," so to speak. So, what distinguishes Jacob from Laban?

Strictly speaking, Lavan was an openly declared liar, while Jacob was merely "smarter," that is, without resorting to forbidden methods, he got away with it (since, in reality, having legally purchased the birthright, the blessings belonged to him, only the matter was not publicly known for some reason...).

We can see this in the very names the Torah gives to each of them: Jacob directly and revealingly indicates the concept of being more intelligent (as in the cited verse; see Rashi and Onkelus there). And so he behaved, as a simple person, but not a fool. Whereas in the case of Laban, his name means "white," appearing outwardly as a kind and sincere person, but inwardly a liar and a deceiver. That is why the Torah does not directly say "Laban the liar," but rather "the Aramean," and we must consider the order of the letters to see his true nature: outwardly he was good, but inwardly evil.

Jacob's most outstanding quality was truthfulness. And this was expressed in the fact that his inner self was the same as his outer self.

Taking this into account, we can see that Jacob and his stay in Haran, at Laban's house, symbolizes the daily difficulties each person faces in their mission to make themselves and the world around them a dwelling place for God. Society presents itself as Laban, with interesting and tempting proposals that outwardly appear positive, but inwardly are contrary to the principles and values of the Torah and, therefore, are negative. And we must act like Jacob, always attentive to the onslaughts of the world, as they say in Argentina, "dodging our rivals" intelligently, avoiding difficulties in our approach to God.

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